Male psychology and dating
On the surface, you'd think that finding a mutually rewarding and healthy relationship would be easy, but we all know it is not, and here's why: The pool in which you're fishing is shallow and poorly stocked, my friends. There are ways to locate a person who's a healthy fit - it takes time, patience, being deliberate and mindful in the process.
We're looking for top quality fishing, and all we find are throwbacks ... First, what is a great guy, and what is a throwback? What a great guy is was defined by the cave woman millions of years ago.
Instead of the two plot points clocking in at 0 and 100 on the continuum, they were registering as 40 and 60.
This depolarization, again while a healthy step to get away from the archaic system that penalized the feminine, caused mass dissatisfaction in couples’ intimate relationships.
You're a single, professional woman, and you'd like to find a long-term partner.
The problem arises when someone is predominantly one over the other in the direction that they do not intend. This means that one of the partners is more strongly associated with their masculine, and the other their feminine.
As it currently stands in the modern day developed world, there has been a large shift towards feminizing men and minimizing masculine energy overall. Sexual polarity in the developed world was extremely polarized and feminine energy was thought of as less valuable before the sexual revolution of the 1970′s.
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Today's great guy is someone who is confident, kind, intelligent, consistent, commitment-oriented, secure, honest, healthy, smart, fun, funny, emotionally available, able to make you a priority, interested in life, and a hard-working provider. These guys, by my estimate, are less than 5 percent of the available male population. Personal and professional experience, and uh, statistics ... Although that's a long list, unfortunately it is not a complete list. But the good news is that although 95 percent of men are like the ones listed above, we still have that allusive 5 percent we can choose from. Most are in relationships, because they are commitment-oriented, but sometimes women stupidly kick them out, and occasionally, as horrible as it is, their partners pass away.